She left the group chat we'd had for four years. No warning, no fight, nothing. Just gone. Then I saw she made a new one — same people, minus me. I found out because someone accidentally sent a message to the wrong chat. She still hasn't said a word
The group had become toxic and I needed out for my mental health. I didn't want to make it dramatic by explaining. The new chat wasn't about excluding her — it just started organically. I've been meaning to talk to her privately but I don't know how to start that conversation.
Argument B provides a valid reason for leaving the group chat, citing mental health concerns, which is a legitimate personal boundary. The creation of a new chat without the individual from Argument A seems unintentional rather than malicious. However, the lack of communication is a shortcoming, but B's intent to address it privately indicates a willingness to resolve the issue.
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